Genes
do
play
an
essential
role
in
the
brain’s
formation,
but the
brain
matures
in
the
world
rather
than
in
the
womb.
For
many
generations
philosophers
debated
whether
nature
or
nurture
called
the
shots
in
the
formation
of
a
person's
intellect
and
personality.
Now
scientists
such
as
Dr.
Stanley
Greenspan,
a
psychiatrist
at
George
Washington
University
state
that
"
It's
not
a
competition,
it's
a
dance."
At birth the infant's brain has 100 billion nerve cells or neurons.
These neurons will grow and connect with other neurons in systems that
control various functions like seeing, hearing, moving and expressing
emotion. These systems, which are formed by repeated experiences,
provide the foundation for the brain's organization and functioning
throughout life. The absence of appropriate experiences results in the
lack of development or the disappearance of these connections.
The
parts
of
the
brain
that
handle
thinking
and
remembering,
as
well
as
emotional
and
social
behaviour,
will
develop
in
the
world
from
the
interplay
between
a
child’s
heredity
and
the
experiences
he
or
she
has
during
childhood.
Just
as
their
bodies
need
food
to
grow,
science
now
tells
us
that
the
positive
emotional,
physical
and
intellectual
experiences
that
a
baby
has
in
the
earliest
years
are
equally
necessary
for
the
growth
of
a
healthy
brain.
Children
are
deeply
affected
by
their
early
experiences.
Their
relationships
with
parents
and
other
important
caregivers,
the
sights,
sounds,
smells
and
feelings
they
experience,
the
challenges
they
meet,
don’t
just
affect
their
moods;
these
experiences
actually
affect
the
way
children’s
brains
become
"wired."
Deprived
of
a
stimulating
environment,
a
child’s
brain
suffers.
Rich
experiences
produce
rich
brains.
And
we
are
not
talking
about
experiences
that
cost
a
lot
of
money
to
provide.
Every
lullaby,
every
giggle
and
peek-a-boo,
triggers
a
crackling
along
a
child’s
neural
pathways,
laying
the
groundwork
for
what
could
someday
be
a
love
of
art
or
a
talent
for
soccer
or
a
gift
for
making
and
keeping
friends.
Introducing
your
child
to
music
from
a
very
young
age
has
been
shown
to
have
a
positive
effect
on
their
mathematical
reasoning
skills
when
they
enter
school.
The
first
years
shape
a
child’s
personality.
Babies
who
are
hugged
often,
played
with,
sung
to
and
feel
loved
and
cared
for
are
much
more
likely
to
grow
up
confident
and
optimistic.
With all the information we are now learning about how important
parenting is to healthy brain development particularly in the first
three years of life, many parents wonder whether they are providing
sufficient stimulation for their children. The good news is that the
tools parents require to help their children develop are readily at
hand. I am Your Child organization proposes ten
guidelines that promote healthy development and school readiness.
Be warm, loving and responsive
-
when
children
receive
warm,
responsive
care
they
are
more
likely
to
feel
safe
and
secure
with
the
adults
who
take
care
of
them.
Researchers
call
these
strong
relationships
"secure
attachments"
and
they
are
the
basis
of
all
the
child’s
future
relationships.
We
have
always
known
that
children
thrive
when
they
feel
secure;
now
we
know
that
children’s
early
attachments
actually
affect
the
way
their
brains
work
and
grow.
We
all
love
our
children
but
it
is
extremely
important
that
we
express
that
love.
Touching,
rocking,
talking,
smiling,
singing
affect
how
your
child’s
brain
is
"wired"
and
helps
to
shape
later
learning
and
behaviour.
Touch
is
especially
important;
holding
and
stroking
stimulates
the
brain
to
release
important
hormones
necessary
for
growth.
In
fact
children
who
receive
warm
and
responsive
caregiving
and
are
securely
attached
cope
with
difficult
times
more
easily
when
they
are
older.
They
are
more
curious,
get
along
better
with
other
children
and
perform
better
in
school
than
children
who
are
less
securely
attached.
Respond
to
the
child’s
cues
and
clues -
Infants
can’t
use
words
to
communicate
their
moods
or
needs,
but
they
send
many
signals
to
adults
who
care
for
them.
Children
become
securely
attached
when
parents
and
other
caregivers
try
to
read
these
signals
and
respond
with
sensitivity.
They
begin
to
trust
that
when
they
smile,
someone
will
smile
back;
that
when
they
are
upset,
someone
will
comfort
them;
that
when
they
are
hungry,
someone
will
feed
them.
Parents
who
pay
close
attention
to
their
children’s
needs
for
stimulation
as
well
as
quiet
times
help
them
form
secure
attachments.
We
sometimes
worry
that
we
will
spoil
our
baby
but
studies
show
that
newborns
who
are
more
quickly
and
warmly
responded
to
when
crying
typically
learn
to
cry
much
less
and
sleep
more
at
night.
In
terms
of
our
knowledge
of
the
brain
this
is
what
happens.
When
the
baby
is
hungry,
uncomfortable
or
upset,
the
brain’s
stress-response
systems
turn
on
and
release
stress
hormones.
The
baby
expresses his/her distress
by
crying.
When
the
caregiver
responds
and
provides
food
or
warmth
or
comfort,
the
baby
tends
to
be
calmed.
The
stress-response
systems
in
the
brain
are
turned
off
and
the
infant’s
brain
begins
to
create
the
networks
of
brain
cells
that
help
the
baby
learn
to
soothe
himself.
Research
has
shown
that
by
the
end
of
the
first
year
of
life,
children
who
have
received
consistent,
warm
and
responsive
care
produce
less
of
the
stress
hormone
cortisol,
and
when
they
do
become
upset,
they
turn
off
their
stress
reaction
more
quickly.
This
suggests
that
they
are
better
equipped
to
respond
to
life’s
challenges.
Talk, read and sing to your child
-
Children
with
chatty
parents
develop
large
vocabularies
and
score
better
on
IQ
tests
later
in
life.
Making
up
stories
about
daily
events,
singing
songs
about
the
people
and
places
they
know,
describing
what
is
happening
during
daily
routines
–
all
of
these
"conversations"
give
your
child
a
solid
basis
for
later
learning.
However language experts note that kids receive little benefit from
listening to TV or adults talking amongst themselves. Only through
one-on-one interaction with a caring person will children acquire the
language and skills they need. You can read picture books to very
young children, even to infants. By about six months, infants show
their excitement by widening their eyes and moving their arms and legs
when looking at a book with pictures of babies or other familiar
objects.
Establish routines and rituals
- A
toddler knows it is nap time because his mom sings a song and closes
the curtains, as she always does. Daily routines and rituals
associated with pleasurable feelings are reassuring for children, as
caregivers have long known. Repeated positive experiences, which form
strong connections between neurons in the brain, provide children with
a sense of security. They also help a child learn what to expect from
his environment and how to understand the world around him. Children
who have safe and predictable interactions with others have also been
found to do better in school later on.
Encourage safe
exploration and play
-
In
the
first
months
of
life,
the
parents
are
the
child’s
whole
world.
Interactions
between
the
parent
and
child
form
the
basis
of
all
subsequent
learning.
As
infants
grow
and
are
able
to
crawl
and
walk,
they
begin
to
explore
the
world.
Parents
should
encourage
this
exploration
and
be
receptive
when
the
child
needs
to
return
to
them
for
security.
Play
is
important
as
a
learning
experience.
While
many
of
us
think
of
learning
as
simply
acquiring
facts,
children
actually
learn
through
playing.
Flash
cards
and
expensive
educational
toys
are
not
necessary.
To
some
extent
the
simpler
the
toy,
the
more
opportunities
they
will
be
for
children
to
use
their
imagination.
Everyday
item
like
pots
and
pans,
cardboard
boxes,
old
clothes
and
egg
cartons
are
all
your
child
needs.
Join
in
when
your
child
discovers
that
banging
a
spoon
on
a
pot
makes
a
loud
noise.
You
will
be
celebrating
your
child’s
accomplishment.
Make TV
watching selective
-
Television
by
itself
can’t
teach
an
infant
language,
and
it
can’t
teach
him
how
to
communicate.
Studies
show
that
children
who
learn
best
in
school
have
families
who
limit
the
amount
of
time
they
spend
in
front
of
the
TV
and
are
selective
as
to
the
kinds
of
shows
they
watch.
Very
young
children
are
still
learning
about
the
difference
between
what
is
real
and
what
is
pretend.
Some
TV
images
strike
them
as
delightful,
but
many
others
images
can
be
confusing
or
even
frightening.
Use
discipline as an opportunity to teach -
As
children
explore
their
ever-expanding
world
they
need
limits
and
consistent,
loving
adult
supervision.
Studies
reveal
that
the
way
in
which
adults
provide
discipline
–
which
really
means
to
teach
–
is
crucial
to
their
children’s
later
development.
Many
approaches
to
setting
limits
can
work,
as
long
as
they
are
intended
to
help
and
teach
children,
rather
than
punish
them.
Keep
these
ideas
in
mind:
- Redirect
your
child’s
attention
or
activity
by
using
neutral
or
positive
language:
"It’s
not
OK
to
draw
on
the
wall,
but
here
is
some
paper
you
can
use."
- Say
No
while
maintaining
love:
"I
love
you,
but
I
don’t
love
what
you
are
doing."
- Give
the
reason
for
your
rule:
"Don’t
run
with
scissors
–
you
might
fall
and
hurt
yourself."
- Give limited tasks and be specific in your requests with
very young children: "Please pick up your stuffed
animals" (instead of "Please clean up your
room.")
- Acknowledge
children’s
feelings
but
set
limits:
"
I
know
you
are
angry,
but
no
biting."
- Help children see how they can use their words instead of
their fists to communicate their feelings.
- Acknowledge positive
behaviour; "You did a good job
picking up your stuffed animals. Thank you."
- Never
shake
your
child,
especially
a
baby.
This
can
injure
your
child’s
brain
and
sometimes
even
cause
death.
- When disciplining your child do not harshly criticize and
shame the child. Never call the child names like stupid, bad
or, dumb. Direct your comments to their
behaviour, not to who
they are as people.
Recognize
that each child is unique
- Children
have different temperaments and grow and learn at different rates.
We need to respect these individual differences if children are
going to feel good about themselves. Children feel good about
themselves when they accomplish developmental tasks. When they
receive concrete praise from their parents: " You climbed
those stairs all by yourself."
Choose quality child care and
stay involved
- Seek
a
provider
who
responds
warmly
and
responsively
to
the
baby’s
needs.
Select
someone
who
cares
about
children,
is
eager
to
learn
about
their
development
and
will
give
children
individual
attention
and
engage
them
in
creative
play
and
exploration.
Find
a
setting
that
is
clean
and
safe.
Carefully
check
the
provider’s
references.
After
choosing
your
child
care
provider,
stay
involved.
Drop
in
unannounced
occasionally
so
you
can
see
what
your
child’s
world
is
like
during
the
day.
Don’t
be
afraid
to
offer
constructive
suggestions
to
improve
your
child’s
experience.
Take care of yourself -
Parents
and
caregivers
need
care
too.
Because
you
provide
the
primary
environments
for
infants
and
young
children,
your
health
and
welfare
are
extremely
important.
When
you
are
exhausted,
preoccupied,
irritable,
depressed,
or
overwhelmed,
you
will
probably
have
a
harder
time
meeting
the
needs
of
young
children.
When
you
are
overwhelmed,
take
care
of
yourself.
Reach
out
and
get
some
help.
Family,
friends,
neighbours,
and
agencies
that
support
families
–
all
can
assist
you
in
fostering
your
child’s
healthy
development
and
school
readiness.
And
bear
in
mind
that
there
are
many
ways
to
reach
this
goal.
When
you
make
a
mistake,
as
all
parents
and
caregivers
do,
you
have
many
opportunities
to
make
up
for
it.
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Physical
fitness is positively associated with mental health and
well-being.
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Leisure
activities have psychological benefits such as self expression;
companionship, increased self esteem, decreased tension, anxiety
and depression, increased confidence, assertiveness, emotional
stability, independence and self control.
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Physical
activity increases energy and makes weight control easier. Over 10
% of youth are obese and as many as 85% of these youth are
expected to remain obese as adults.
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People
who
are
more
physically
active
throughout
life
generally
benefit
from
a
higher
level
of
health
and
functioning
than
people
who
are
not
active.
Exercise
activates
many
of
the
body’s
systems
and
produces
health
related
benefits.
Getting
into
good
exercise
habits
at
a
young
age
is
an
important
prevention
strategy.
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Researchers
have
reported
beneficial
effects
of
exercise
on
the
health
of
children
with
chronic
diseases
such
as
asthma
(increased
lung
volumes
and
flow,
decreased
heart rate),
cerebral
palsy
(enhanced
endurance
of
respiratory
spasticity,
prevention
of contractures), obesity
(reduced
weight).
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Researchers
have found that positive changes in leisure functioning were
related to favorable outcomes on drug use and criminality.
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Key to Balanced Human Development
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Studies
have shown that there is a relationship between physical activity,
learning and academic performance in children which include: -
High grades are associated with high physical performance;
training physical skills can positively affect the basic cognitive
skills for children with learning disabilities; students who
participated in a daily running program achieved higher levels in
reading, language and mathematics and had better cardiovascular
fitness.
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Children
who participate in sports gain strong task oriented skills plus
valuable concepts and values. These include: how you play is at
least as important as winning and losing; being the best is doing
your best; mistakes are part of learning and improving; all
children, regardless of their ability have something to offer and
receive from sports; working with, rather than trying to always
outdo others, is a valuable dimension of the sports experience.
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Play has a
significant impact on problem-solving ability.
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Academics
at
Harvard
University
have
demonstrated
that
the
arts
play
a
crucial
role
in
improving
a
students’
ability
to
learn
because
they
draw
on
a
range
of
intelligence
and
learning
styles,
not
just
the
linguistic
and
logical-mathematical
intelligence
upon
which
most
schools
are
based.
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The arts
are cited as critical for certain foundation skills which include
thinking creatively, problem solving, exercising individual
responsibility, sociability and self-esteem.
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Three
year
old
involved
in
music
training
and
group
singing
classes
doubled
their
scores
in
spatial
reasoning.
Music
excites
brain
patterns
and
promotes
their
use
in
complex
reasoning
tasks.
Music
at
an
early
age
–
when
connections
in
the
brain
are
most
plastic-
provides
exercise
for
higher
brain
functions.
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Enhances Quality of Life
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Studies of
the self-affirming potential of recreation situations demonstrate
the powerful effect of recreation and leisure situations on the
self-concept. Freely chosen activities are most likely to promote
self affirmation.
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There is
some evidence that suggest that low levels of physical activity
and fitness are associated with loneliness and social
dissatisfaction among children.
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Children
say that they like to participate in recreation, arts and sports
for the following reasons; Fun and enjoyment; learning and
improving skills; Being with friends and socializing; Success and
winning; Physical fitness and health.
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Teenagers
generally report that involvement in sports, games, art, music
performance and hobbies are the most demanding and enjoyable
activities in their lives.
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Reduces Self Destructive and Anti Social
Behaviour
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The
likelihood of youth never smoking is directly related to level of
physical activity.
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Physical
activity /recreation can help youth at risk by:
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improving
self esteem and promoting self confidence |
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providing
positive role models |
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teaching
teamwork and social skills |
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providing a
sense of belonging |
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giving youth
something constructive to do |
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providing a
means of releasing stress |
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promoting
positive morals and values |
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reducing risk
factors for disease |
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teaching
cognitive, leadership and life skills |
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providing an
opportunity for racial integration |
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enhancing
cultural awareness |
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providing a
sense of community |
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fostering
family support and promoting wellness
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Builds Strong Families and
Healthy Communities
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Families
that
play
together
stay
together
–
children
and
youth
remain
connected.
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Recreation connects
community residents, enhances a sense of community and nurtures new
community leaders.
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"Kids
Booster Club"
Family income directly impacts children's
involvement in organized sports or the arts. Together with the
Huron County Children’s Aid Society and other public and private
partners,
the Kids Booster Club was
initiated to raise funds to ensure that all youngsters can
enjoy the life long benefits of active recreation and leisure
activities. Financial contributions to the fund are administered
through the Children’s Benefit Fund of the Children’s Aid
Society.
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In
terms
of
child
development
we
know
toddlers
imitate
our actions, by putting
on
daddy’s
shoes,
baking
a
cake
like
mommy. We
know
that
school
age
children
are affected
by
the
behaviour
modeled
by
adults.
How
many
times
have
we
heard
ourselves
in
what
they
are
saying
to
their
little
sister
"Stop
that
before
Mommy
gets
mad"
when
they
are
playing
house
or
other
imaginary
games.
We
try
to
provide
good
models
and
keep
our
children
away
from
inappropriate
influences
yet
we
believe
those
who
state
"The
jury
is
still
out
on
the
effects
of
television:
the
research
is
inconsistent
and
flawed".
Psychological
research
has
found
that
televised
violence
has
numerous
effects
on
the
behaviour
of
children
of
different
ages.
These
include
the
imitation
of
violence
and
crime
seen
on
television
(copycat
violence),
reduced
inhibition
against
behaving
aggressively,
the
‘triggering"
of
impulsive
acts
of
aggression
and
the
displacing
of
activities
such
as
socializing
with
other
children
and
interacting
with
adults
that
would
teach
children
non
violent
ways
to
solve
conflicts.
Television
violence
has
also
been
found
to
have
emotional
effects
on
children.
Children
may
become
desensitized
to
real
life
violence
they
may
come
to
see
the
world
as
a
mean
and
scary
place
or
they
may
come
to
expect
others
to
resort
to
physical
violence
to
resolve
conflicts.
At age 2 and a half, toddlers begin to
pay attention to the television set and begin to imitate what
they see and hear on television.
Since toddlers have a strong preference
for cartoons and other programs that have characters who move
fast, there is considerable likelihood that they will be exposed
to large amounts of violence.
Preschoolers behave more aggressively
than usual in their play after watching any high action exciting
television content, but especially after watching violent
television.
By age eight children are more likely
to be sensitive to important moderating influences of television
content and will not become more aggressive themselves if the
violence they see is portrayed as evil, as causing human
suffering or as resulting in punishment or disapproval. They are
especially likely to show increased aggression from watching
violent television if they believe the violence reflects real
life, they identify with a violent hero (as boys often do) or if
they engage in aggressive fantasies.
One
boy
described
a
deliberate
attempt
to
reduce
his
won
fear
by
using
identification.
"The
first
time
He
saw
Nightmare
on
Elm
Street
"It
was
easy.
I
pretended
I
was
Freddy
Kruger.
Then
I
wasn’t
scared.
Now
,
that’s
what
I
always
do
and
I
am
never
scared.
Since
identifying
with
an
aggressive
hero
has
a
strong
influence
on
increasing
aggression,
this
tactic
for
reducing
fear
is
chilling.
Children may be deliberately trying to
conquer their fears of vulnerability and victimization by
desensitizing themselves through repeated exposure to horror
movies but to the extent that they desensitize themselves to
violence and fear they are also very likely becoming more
tolerant of violence in the real world.
Abused children watch more television
than other children do, prefer violent programs and appear to
admire violent heroes. Children who are both abused and watchers of
a great deal of television are likely to commit violent crimes
later in life.
Emotionally disturbed children are more
likely than other children to perceive television content as
accurately reflecting the real world and they may identify with
violent characters.
There
are
a
number
of
ways
parents
can
limit
their
children’s
exposure
to
violence.
Restricting
the
amount
and
types
of
programs
children
watch
is
probably
the
most
effective
approach
for
children
of
all
ages.
However
there
are
also
strategies
that
are
specifically
appropriate
for
children
at
different
ages.
Since toddlers have a strong preference
for cartoons and other programs that have characters who move
fast there is considerable likelihood that they will be exposed
to large amounts of violence. Limiting such programs is wise with
toddlers, who are at an age when they like to imitate what they
see in life and on television. It is not the violence itself
that makes the cartoons attractive to preschoolers but the
accompanying vivid production features. Educational programs
that use such features as animation also appeal to toddlers
without the negative effects of violent content. Another
important thing parents can do is to watch less violent
television themselves when their children are awake as toddlers
are highly influenced by their parents viewing habits.
While watching television together as a
family has positive benefits, it has been found that when most
of our family time is spent around the television, the negative
effects of television increase. Under these circumstances,
children watch more violence and have more faith in the reality
of television portrayals. It has been found that when parents do
watch violent programs with their children but do not discuss
the content with them their children may actually become more
aggressive. It may seem to children that their parents appear to
be in favour of violent activities if they watch such actions on
the screen and do not comment on their inappropriateness.
Rather than just watching together,
parents need to discuss, explain and challenge. In particular,
older children and adolescents need to be encouraged to express
their opinions and to analyze and question television content.
This strategy has been found to reduce their fears and
aggressiveness.
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