Parent Child Learning Activities
Observation
You
can develop observation as you do everyday things with your
child. For example, put a new kind of cereal in a bowl. Explore
the cereal together:
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Look at the cereal
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Listen to the cereal
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Smell the cereal
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Touch the cereal
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Taste
the cereal
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As you
and your child discover, use your senses to get information
about the cereal, use words that tell about the cereal, the
look, sound, taste, feel, and smell. For example, the cereal
looks round, sounds crunchy, tastes like apples.
Making
the Bed
Making the bed is
accomplished in several different steps. Choose your first
step and describe it. For example, "Let’s pull up the
sheets together." Ask your child to choose the next step.
They may say "Put the pillows on the bed" or
"Put the stuffed animals on the bed." Continue like
this until the bed is made.
After a while, your child
will be able to follow two and three instructions –
"Pull up the sheets, straighten the blanket and put the
pillows on." Eventually, they will make the bed on their own.
Don’t forget to offer
praise and compliments by saying, "Wow, we just made the
bed together. What a great job!" This makes them feel
like a big part of the process and that they eventually will
do it on their own.
Sticky Notes
Play a name game with your
child. Ask them "What’s your name?" When they
answer, print it on a sticky note and stick it on them. Next
ask, "What’s my name?" The answer will be
something like Mom, Dad or Suzy, depending on your
relationship to the child. Print this "name" on
yourself and have them stick it on you.
Continue to ask your child
what other names or labels they have. Think of names or
nicknames for each other and other things around them.
Water Play
Try some water play in the
kitchen sink. Make sure they are closely supervised. Playing
with water is fun and easy to manipulate and will allow you to
create lots of effects.
Fill your sink with water.
Ask "I wonder what will happen if we pull out the
plug?" Have your child pull the plug and watch the water
as it goes down the drain. Reinforce this effect by saying
"If you pull out the plug, the water goes down the
drain."
Refill the sink with water.
Let your child add some dish soap to the water. Ask "I
wonder what will happen if you stir the water?" Have them
stir it with a spoon, a whisk or their hands to froth up the
bubbles. If by this point your child hasn’t already said it,
reinforce saying "If you stir the water, then it gets all
bubbly!"
Give them toys to play with
in the water like a plastic cup, a sieve, a rock or a small
watering can. Allow them to play in the water and watch them
use their imagination and creativity to come up with lot of
things to try. Keep pointing out the cause and the effect of
what they are doing in a safe environment.
Charades
Try the game of
"charades" with your child. Think of a message you
want to give your child. The message should include an action,
such as "Let’s go for a walk" or "Let’s
read a book."
Now, play
"charades." Convey the message without talking. Use
body movements, facial expressions, etc. If this doesn’t
work, try pointing at things or picking them up.
See if your child can show
that they understand your message. How effective was your
message? What could you have done to communicate more clearly?
A Walk in the
Woods
It is a sunny fall day and
between dishes and loads of laundry you decide to take your
child for a walk in the nearby park. When you are walking
outdoors, think of all the sounds that you and your child are
hearing. Your child hears a dog bark and is excited. She makes
a sound each time the barks. You repeatedly say, "Yes,
that is a dog. The dog is barking. It sounds like ‘woof,
woof.’" Of course, a dog doesn’t really say
"woof, woof," but that’s close enough and you’re
modeling vowel and consonant sounds and providing a context
for your child to say a word.
Walk through the dried
leaves and hear the sounds they make. You listen closely to
the sound and decide to listen for other sounds of bird, the
wind, nearby traffic, the trees creaking… You are teaching
your child the beginnings of active listening – that is,
being aware or sounds and sound patterns.
Writing a
Letter to Your Child(ren)
Think about
values in your life such as; sharing, caring, balance,
equality, social justice, respect, choice and freedom. Choose
three that are the most important to you. Imagine that it is
20 years from now. Write a letter to your child(ren) telling
them why you want them to learn and practice the three values
you have chosen. You could start your letter out with
"You are an adult now and on your own. Here are some
values I have tried to pass on to you and that I hope you will
pass onto your children." You probably will want to sign
it and date it. Imagine the reaction of your child reading
this 20 years from now.
Make A Map
Create a map of
your child’s social life. List all family members, friends
and other people who your child sees or has contact with
regularly. Choose one at a time. Think of how they have
affected your child’s learning, and list them. For example,
an older sister might take a child to the playground, play
dress up or finger paint.
Keep a Diary
Each evening
for a week, write about your child’s day. Focus on the
interactions she had with other people and things. Compare how
much she is learning from other people with what she is
learning from things – for example toys or TV.
Interactions
Pick a day when
your child will be with you all day. Put a sheet of paper on
the
fridge. Each time you interact with your
children, note the
time and the activity. By the end of the day, you’ll realize
how much you are socializing with him or her.
Bath Time
Bath time is a perfect
opportunity for exploration. If you have a child who loves the
bath, great! If not, maybe this will make baths more fun for
both of you. Let your child pick things he would like to
explore while taking a bath.
Make sure they’re
tub-friendly. If he or she wants to put a cookie in the tub to
see what happens, it’s up to you! Include things that
squirt, soak up, pour, float, sink, make noise (music, slide
or stick when wet, etc. You can also use bubble bath, soap
crayons, putty soap and other tub art materials.
Talk with your child about
what might happen when he or she puts each object in the water
and how he or she might use each object. Model exploration by
touching, squeezing, looking, listening, asking questions and
thinking out loud. Push a rubber duck under the water and say,
" I wonder what will happen if I let go of this
duck?" Let go of it and find out.
Try adapting this activity
for different times and place, like the sandbox or the crib.
Using the same objects several times helps your childe to
explore possibilities and develop prior knowledge.
The Sandbox
The next time
you’re in the sandbox, watch your child playing.
Let her
direct the play, but join in as much as you can.
Playing with sand is a good
way of making connections and creating new ideas. It can be
used as a construction site, kitchen, town or city, science
lab or artists studio. Children use sand to make connections
about shape, measurement, size, volume, proportion, texture,
weight, colour etc. Trying the same toy in different ways
helps to build connections. A bucket can be used to carry or
mould sand; it can be the base of a castle, a swimming pool in
the castle courtyard or the drum played by the guard at the
gate of the castle.
The sandbox is an empty
canvas for you and your child to work with. You can use your
imagination to come up with different ways to play with each
toy and with the sand itself. The sand and toys can be
whatever you want them to be.
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Parenting activities are
taken from Early Learning Canada, a community
workshop program designed for parent and adults who work with
young children from birth to age 6 years of age and their
families. The program is brought to us from Learning and
Reading Partners Adult Learning System. Rural Response for
Healthy Children offers the Early Learning Canada program
to interested parents and adults who work with young children.
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