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Don’t single out your child with personalized clothes. If a
potential abuser calls your child by his/her own name, they are
more likely to go with them.
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Remember there is safety in numbers. Do not let your child play
alone in a public place.
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Preschoolers, six and under are too young to be out on their
own.
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Teach your children never to take shortcuts.
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Children should be taught to trust their instincts. If they are
scared or suspicious, teach them to act on their instincts.
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Teach children to say "NO", run away and get someone
to help.
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Pick a secret code word with your child, ie. grapes. Teach
children never to go off with anyone unless the person knows the
secret code word.
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Make sure all children know their address and telephone number
including the area code.
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Self-defense courses are not a good defense against guns,
knives etc. Run, yell, finding someone to help is a better
defense.
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Children should be taught to go to someone in a uniform if they
are lost or to a cash register in a store.
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Check your babysitter’s references thoroughly.
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In 85% of sexual abuse the perpetrator is someone the child
knows and with whom the child may already have a trusting
relationship.
It is important to provide children with skills to
protect them from abuse or abduction by strangers. However since
most children are abused by someone they know they need to learn
about appropriate boundaries and be able to communicate to trusted
adults if someone pushes the limits of those boundaries.
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Teach your children the proper names for their sexual body
parts. Children need the words that can help them to speak up
about what has happened to them without too much embarrassment.
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Children need to be taught they have the right to say NO.
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Teach your children to speak up about touch they do not like.
Teach them not to keep secrets. Sexual abuse cannot continue to
occur in the absence of secrecy. Children should know that
TOUCHING IS NEVER A SECRET.
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Do not force a child to give physical affection. The message is
that forced physical affection is okay.
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Teach your child to be assertive, that they should keep telling
adults until someone believes them and gets them the help to make
the abuse stop.
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If a child tells you about sexual abuse believe the child.
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Say "I believe you" or "I’m sorry this
happened to you". Listen openly and calmly. Reassure the
child, say "I'm glad you told me", "you did the
right thing" and/or "it is not your fault". Write
down the facts in the child’s words. Immediately make a report
to the child abuse authorities.
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In
Huron County call the Children’s Aid Society at:
1 - 800 - 265
- 5198
or 519 - 524 - 7356
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